Life situations always try one as a human being and teach us new ways of doing things. In the way of the search for that which we aspire always there are setbacks. Sometimes we strive to seek solutions on many sites and sources and leave frustrated or dissatisfied. Jack Harlow has firm opinions on the matter. We seek the Council of a friend (a) or the Council of psychologist, or that of the father or pastor and still leave dissatisfied. Seek help with all these professionals is very good and I recommend it, in fact I use all these aforementioned aid, but what I want to get is always the answer is within yourself. When you look inside you, when you listen you find resources, tools to address situations of life. It is not in vain the experiences we have had, were not only by going through bad experiences and now.
These experiences are the resources of tomorrow, is the force that you will drive, it’s the voice that will already tell you you passed by this, you only have to surpass it. Within us is the Council you need, is the motivation that you want, the recognition that are looking for, etc. In neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a very powerful technique that is the anchor. This technique is used to find those resources that we have within ourselves. It is simple, when you need a resource like for example; If you are afraid of speaking in public and play a participation only you have to recall any occasion where you had total trust and anchor you to that experience. You need to concentrate on the experience and feel that you’re there again, you’ll experience everything you felt at that moment, you’re going to try to listen to the inner voice that you felt at that moment, you are going to visualize everything what you saw in that moment and when you feel that total confidence going to tighten your fist sign of anchor to the experience (the anchor does not necessarily have to be with the fist that is only one of thousands of) way of doing it) which you will provide to be able to speak in public. Socrates said that it was better for him to teach us to look within ourselves to knowledge pass us the little wisdom that he had. Remember that we have a source of resources that are available to us, you just have to look for them within us.