Love it needs for full development (and in some cases for survival), and he was trying to get it go to any conditions. But at heart he has endeared doubt that he is worthy of love – just like that for no reason, without conditions – and the habit of making love. Almost everyone who comes to me at the reception, says a similar story. One woman told me that she could not afford a bad mood, tears, or demands, because it upset my mother. Upsetting, she stopped to talk with her daughter and she quickly learned how to to suppress all signs of discontent, fear or frustration. She became very comfortable, actually cut off part of yourself to get the illusion of acceptance. Another woman talked about the sacrifice of the mother.
Her mother his entire life dropped at the feet of the family – abandoned a career of passion, not letting little or no cost to their needs. But for some reason to live in such an ideal picture was unbearable. The whole family was obliged to be grateful for this sacrifice, and also, as in the first case, it was impossible to be sincere – be angry, to want something else or do not want stuffy care. My daughter had to "cut off" their feelings and for a long time to wear the mask of gratitude. A third woman talked about the outwardly friendly but inwardly very cold and unsympathetic mother. She opted for a role of "daughter" of her husband and almost pulled away from contact.