When for some reason people are involved in relationships where selfishness, envy, hostility, the coldness and lack of empathy are the ingredient of the loving bond, they surely are establishing relations narcissistic, which seems only the brilliance, the admiration and recognition of a single member of the pair is the only thing that corresponds. By both, living in a relationship as well, leads to experience great feelings of helplessness, frustration and feeling bewildered and confused, because on the one hand, the couple seems to be everything, and on the other hand, meets a total abandonment in his life. This selfishness and jealousy that characterizes the people narcissistic, generally lead to give to the fret to the self-esteem of the couple. However, they do not perceive it, do not realize, and in addition, it seems that while the other person, the couple, is in a situation of greater need, less are seen by their partners. Can not deal with love, triumph and the success of their partners, by the otherwise they will do everything that is in your hands to devalued this type of situations. Therefore, as the messages are subtle, closed and in addition, with a tone of seduction and mockery, it seems that the exact point cannot be found to identify the attack. In this sense, these relationships become fragile, destructive and also unexplained.
At times, it feels be touching the sky, and in others, hell. It is no coincidence in these selfish personalities there is only a place for themselves, with all their interests and activities. The rest can wait, always there are situations and circumstances that lead them to live to the couple as a threat on his life. They are loaded with ambivalence relationships: you want to be in the link but also flee from him. They are relations that hold mainly to people who want to love deeply. To women or men who love too much and want to belong and be next to someone as bright, so intelligent and so full of life.
To pass the time and with coexistence true psychology becomes evident in the link loving, Yes is true that they love, but they can hardly be committed with all his being in life. Cuesta Les trabajo give up his life of pleasure, brightness, admiration, adulation and as the couple, is not always willing to do it, generally, just attack it, hurt her, until finally she is who decides to resign and leave as much devaluation. Although the narcissistic has done everything so that the relationship ends, it will not accept what ever, always the couple will have responsibility. Really is important to be aware of what kind of loving links are establishing in life with the couple, with ourselves and with the rest of the world. But if we find ourselves living in this way in the shadow of others, is that surely, we must undertake a process of autconocimiento and personal development. Thanks for reading, my mission is the quality of emotional life and its impact on the social. In Cecreto we have received a number of queries with regard to these loves, and therefore, we have material on the topic.