How to understand the love the couple? For many people love the couple means give everything, company, time, favors, and even up to money loving couple is a condition that is surrounded by a series of factors that generally have to do with the way on how we have been educated in particular, and of the society in which we live in general, religion and their mandates also play an important role in the way that great love is expressed in the couple. Love when it exists, is usually a feeling of well-being and positive disposition towards someone or something the couple is one of relationships in which his expression is expected more frequently. Love not looks, feels, but translates into behaviour and appreciation. How is that if it’s a positive affective disposition, the relationship with your partner makes me both suffer? The situation may not be her relationship but the way in which we express or understand the love the couple I have listened to a series of couples say they love madly, but that instead of building a constructive for their differences, on the contrary, love and solutions to your relationship is denoted in shouts, insults, blows, dropouts and failures of attention, for some men and women, love is control, dominance, submission, in order to forget oneself to be always present for the couple. For many women the wait is a form of love and relate, postponed any desire or personal needs so that they have time and be available for when his men call them, so don’t go with girlfriends because his great love stay call them, they prefer not to go a party or compromise because their partners were passing through them, also these friendships you don’t like both, they expect that the arrives, they expect him to call them, they expect to have their attentions, they expect that the change and while it does not, then you are just waiting for, many times that man or he appears to thing hour who said, and much less had at least some attention to excuse these women with the syndrome of the waiting easily forget themselves and their self-esteem, on the other hand, higher hopes, greater love, they say having by his men this situation is not exclusive of women, however, there is one greater on them in this respect complaint by another pate, there are men who truly forget themselves, when his lack of trust in the relationship is a factor that destabilizes them want to know everything about your partnerwhere they go, who they were, who are with them, stop living for yourself and are very aware of the actions and movements of his beloved in both ways of loving distrust, indifference, control, and the meaning of life lies in the couple relationship.