Simply, it often happens that different people prevails either the first or second. Nevertheless, you should think that if we are have turned out so good, it could not happen just like that, suddenly, by magic. In this there is a certain merit of our ancestors, through whom were born our parents: a genetic factor because no one has canceled! If parents are for some reason or another did not meet our expectations, this does not mean they are automatically bad people. Probably, for example, that in their lives, too something happened that shocked them, and had a very strong impact by developing a share of negative qualities. For this they should only sympathize and feel sorry for them: do not know how we would behave, it appear we are in a similar situation. It is possible that their kindness, their sincerity were broken under the weight of crushing circumstances, and they did not find the strength to fight to get out of them.
However, our parents gave us these qualities, whether consciously or unconsciously. And they themselves received them from their parents and their parents – on their own and so on. Consequently, we would not be such as we are now, if we grew up in another family. Hence, after all, it makes sense to show respect to those by whom we were born. If man renounces his family and friends, he denies himself. Make make a person something against their will, undoubtedly, very difficult, and force feel something – is doubly problematic.