However, most of my friends not so close to me, to come to me without invitation birthday. Was once in my life, an interesting case, when I was little that did not invite anybody, I'm all in advance phoned and said that the holiday would not be so Excuse me, but please do not compliment. Believe me, there are in life and in this situation. However, friends have come anyway. On the table was in compliance was immediately boiled potatoes, fried smelts (fish such smells like cucumbers) and salads improvised.
It was still great! The eyeballs came two barely knew the guy who walked past the house, accidentally met one of my friends and decided that they too should attend. Poor guys, I'm embarrassed for her behavior, but they are on the threshold were sent back, together with a hastily purchased gifts. So do not go visit without an invitation, if you are not sure that there you will be greeted with joy – risk to spoil the mood itself, but maybe even a birthday (if he, unlike me, does not have enough arrogance and dishonesty. I'm never invited to the birthday of the right people. I think this is unreasonable, because it can inconveniencing you and your friends. The exception is, perhaps, large banquets on the big anniversaries. At such events possible, and even necessary (if the budget allows), to invite relatives and loved ones, friends, colleagues and people with whom you are doing business or relationships at work.